Create your own strong network

Man is the social animal. He needs people around him and he actually wants to have a feeling of being surrounded by individuals. As he is social, he wanted someone to share his intellectual information with. For that, he invented language. He knew that, his skill of communication satisfies his need of sharing intellectual aspects of his personality with people. Do we all think the same way, according to above statement? No. Even if we all are humans, we are all different. Because, we have grown up carrying some thought process and we have different background.

    

    Some people are introverts, some are extroverts. As we all know, extroverts are the individuals who feel very comfortable when it comes to sharing their thoughts and ideas with the people. Exactly opposite to this happens with introverts. It doesn’t mean that they are antisocial species. They are neither from another planet nor do they like to express much. They are the individuals, who like to keep it personal. They are the ones who are comfortable with a few people around them. Being an introvert, you have to face as many hurdles as you face while solving mathematical equations.

    In personal life, there are people who actually know you and don’t misunderstand your silence. But when it comes to your professional life, you have to talk as you all sail in the same boat. If you carry your introvert nature in your professional life, it can affect your career in a long run.

To overcome this situation, one needs to follow some rules:

• Talk often  to the people you are comfortable with
• Create your own network of people
• Try not to avoid people
• Try to talk to strangers
• If you cannot gel with people easily, be a formal communicator
• Understand the fact that communication is the bridge to reach the desired goal in business
• Even if you don’t like communicating with people, make sure that you don’t sound arrogant
• It is the tool to understand the person
• As an introvert, understanding the person is the base of creating rapport for you

  Pros of communication:

• When you run your own business, you need to be vocal as people around you are true advertisers and marketers of your business.
• Through your communication, you can build good relationships beyond the business.
• As a businessman or business woman, you need to understand that it’s always about ‘giver’s gain’.
• Not only for business but for your personal growth as well, you should try and achieve expertise in your communication skills.
• This can definitely help you. You cannot be extrovert overnight but you can take a step further in your journey!

Live like a free spirit

Human beings are nothing but the creatures who are constantly in search of happiness. They not only want happiness but they want it for lifetime. Sometimes one question equips my mind so much and that question is, “What does the real happiness mean?” Many of us may say that having good home, great salary job, so many assets and beautiful clothes to wear that’s what the happiness is all about!    But the great philosopher of Mind, Samarth Ramdas Swami in his 12^thshloka says that, don’t allow sorrow or the concept of sorrow to enter your mind. When you do so, you actually allow yourself to be happy.

Your mind is the source of all good as well as bad experiences in life. If you want to be happy, at first place feel happy. What does actually being happy mean? According to Samarth Ramdas Swami, being happy is realizing that happiness is definitely not body oriented. It is all about being a free spirit and enjoying the happiness by being in the body. Happiness is all about knowing that the real purpose of life is being free from all the bodily and worldly desires. It is about being in a body and still experiencing the pure happiness of being a free spirit. When you do so, you start experiencing the change in your mindset and that’s what Samarth Ramdas wants us to experience.

When you overthink about something, you start worrying a lot without any reason. Samarth asks us to leave this habit behind as this causes sadness in life. He asks us not to worry about having sadness in future life. Thinking about future too, surrounds us with sadness. This is how we could gain the real happiness in life by following the footprints of this great legendry Psychologist, Samarth Ramdas Swami!

Inculcate the co-operative behavior in your child

I was taking evening walk in the garden near my house. Wow! How awesome was the atmosphere and surrounding. I was taking walk and suddenly I saw a little girl who was helping an old lady to go to the bench to sit in the garden. She held that lady’s hand and took her to the bench, made her sit there and then was asking her if she wants water to drink. The whole incident is so simple and may seem very normal but what I saw was the compassion in that little girl’s heart for an old lady. There were many people but this little heart felt for that lady and helped her in best possible way she could.

   I came back home and was busy doing daily chores but still could not forget the incident. This incident made me think that what could be the driving force behind such an amazing mentality? How could a little individual have this sense of helping without any expectation? And then I realized that when a child grows in joint family, he or she gets to know each relation closely. That girl must belong to the joint family. Then again I went to the garden and waited for the girl. She came there to play and I got a chance to interact with her. I asked her a few questions.

   Mainly my concern was to know if she belongs to joint family or not? And surprisingly she was not from the joint family. I asked her how do you get the feeling of helping everyone around you? She said that, "once when my mom was not well, she asked for water to me and I didn’t give her. When I was ill and I needed water she gave me rather she daily does a lot of things for me and my father. My father told me this fact and then I realized I should help everyone if I want to be helped."

  I was more surprised! Seriously friends, it’s parent’s job to make children understand things by giving real life examples. You don’t need to sit with them for hours to make them understand these things and moral values. You just have to give them examples related to the things which you want them to follow. They grasp things easily. In the world of excessive stress, let’s pledge to raise a sensible citizen who can help unconditionally. This world needs more of such individuals.

Helpful guide for new moms!

Motherhood is the beautiful phase to celebrate, but it brings a lot of responsibilities with it. And motherhood with career is a ride of roller coaster. When one needs to take responsibility of career as well as of child, it becomes a bit difficult. It needs a big heart to keep your newborn at home and run for the work. It is not as easy as it seems. This lifestyle brings a lot of stress in life. To help new mothers out there, here we are giving a few tips:

•  After a few months of delivery, make sure that your child is familiar with other people at home. Let your child be with them too, so that the child gets used to their touch as well.
•  Let everyone involve in child rearing process, so that everyone at home would take care of your child as you do with the same love and affection.
•   Have faith in the people when it comes to leaving your baby with them. After all they all are your people. They too love your child as you do.
•  When you are rejoining the work, just do homework first. Sudden changes can be horrible to handle for you. Read and understand the new projects that company has taken during the time of your leaves.
•  Even if you are now a mother but you are an employee at office so, complete your tasks and responsibilities on time.
•  Be emotionally strong because postpartum depression can make you weak at times.
•  It is the great time to prove yourself and make your child feel proud in future.
•  Being a mother, you need to be a bit strong to focus on both the fronts. Career as well as home!
•  Keeping yourself healthy and positive for this is also important.
•  Positive thought process along with healthy mind and body can do wonders for you as well as for your child.
• What you think, you attract that for your child.
• Be mindful and have blissful motherhood!