Friend is someone who always be with you no matter what life serves in your plate. He is the one who knows the inner self of you, which you hide from the world. We all need such friend who would be with us in every situation. We constantly search for such friend in our life. But when that friend hurts us, we feel more helpless and blame the friendship. But there are a few people who never complain and never demand. What makes them like this? They actually have understood the concept of loving their real self and accepting it.
Let me tell you one thing that when you have an ability to accept your own fears and deficiencies, you won’t find it any difficult to be 'yourself' around anyone. What is the real concept of friendship? Friendship is about being able to stand by our friend’s side. It is what we expect from friendship. Do we really expect nothing in the friendship?? No, we expect because we have the sense of being surrounded by the people who love us for what we are.
If we want to be accepted, why don’t we expect it from ourselves? Because we are not comfortable enough to be a friend of our own self. What could be done to achieve this friendship? We should share everything about our thoughts as well as about others to our inner self. We should spend some time with our real self in order to understand our mind. It is not that difficult and also not that easy! It is a bit complex process. Firstly, we should stop thinking that, “Spending time with self, will be boring because, I would be all alone.” We should think that it would be fun and my mind is with me.
When your energetic mind is with you, how could you be alone? Give it a thought and make your life a beautiful journey of understanding your real self. It would definitely help you grow eternally as well as spiritually. Moreover it keeps you positive and keeps the anxiety, depression away from you. Because when you understand yourself better you become satisfied with the life you live.
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