Push your limits

                        

Many a times we must have heard that, we should live within our limits. We should not dare to cross them. Why are we being told so? Because, it is important to stay within certain limits in order to be in the right state of mind. But we apply it everywhere and it becomes difficult for us to break our comfort zone and do something new. When we break that comfort zone, we get to do many things which actually give us a lot of strength and help us grow as a person.
     Sometimes it’s okay to live in your comfort zone, but not always. Comfort zone makes us more relaxed and takes away our spirit of trying something different than usual. It makes us lazy. We give up on trying new things and just do something for the sake of doing.
    While doing something out of our comfort zone, fills our life with thrilling opportunities. It is not about what are we doing with our life but in the first place, it is about what have we decided to live it like? If we want to live it with all the thrill and happening experiences, we need to convince our mind that, “Look, it is going to be difficult, but you have to accompany me in this!”
    We need to understand that life is more about adventures and challenges. We need to be ready for that. We need to convince ourselves that challenges are part of life and we should learn to accept them. For that, we need to push our limits, rather we need to erase those boundaries which define our circle of abilities. When we do so, we would be free to explore our freedom of making choices! When we actually leave our comfort zone, that's where the actual magic happens. If you want to have magical experience, try to push your limits. 

Groom yourself eternally

As we know that the change is natural and it is continuous process of nature. One cannot deny the fact that change is very necessary aspect of life. At some point of life, we think that we should change our hairstyle, dressing style, people around us and the list goes on. Why does this happen?

   It happens because we get bored of our daily routine. When this phase comes in our life, we try to groom ourselves. But have we ever thought that is the grooming only related to physical level or is it only an external factor? No. It is always about the internal grooming too. But how it should be exactly? It should be eternal process. It should be continuous. It should be permanent.

  One should groom at eternal level on a continuous basis. How can this be achieved? It can be achieved with continuous efforts and constant belief. Following are some things that you should do to achieve eternal change.

•         Surround yourself with positive people
•         Do good always
•         Believe in Karma
•         Keep learning new things
•        Never forget to be grateful
•        Keep sharing the experiences
•      Allow yourself to try new things
•        Never expect, never demand
•     Keep the regret away from your life

Enjoy the process

How often do you feel that, “I want to achieve this and that in life?” Many of us may answer, yes very often. It is the human nature to dream about future, rather a successful future. While dreaming about something beautiful, we often forget that we are focusing on the end result a lot that we are unable to focus on the process of achieving the goal. 

    Let’s take an example of journey. When you start your journey, you definitely know where you want to go but at the same time you enjoy each and every moment of your journey. You enjoy each scenery you see from your window sit. Off course! Getting window seat is also an exciting experience. Rather I would say, getting window seat is like getting noble prize for many! And it’s not an exaggeration at all. So, in a way you enjoy your journey even if you constantly think about the destination.

    In the same way, when you think about your career and life, you will realize that you should think about your destination but you should enjoy every stage of your journey towards your destination too, because each stage of your journey is unique and is not going to come back. There are a few questions which irritate our mind a lot while starting something new or progressing in our career, those questions are as follows:

•         Would I be able to achieve the desired goal in my whole life?
•          Would it be right for me to choose this path to achieve success?
•         Would I be able to be determined towards my dream always?

    And list could go on! But while thinking about these questions, we forget one thing that we just have to leave all of these questions behind and just focus on what could be done today to go closer to our goal. We forget to enjoy the first failure, first success and first try of ours. This makes us feel pressurized about achieving the goal. It could lead us to depression. One must enjoy each and every step which is taking them towards their dream, because those steps may not mean anything to the world right now but the foundation they are about to build is going to matter a lot in the long run!

Real magic lies within you!

We people search constantly for something new and something happening around us. We want our life to be magical one. We want it to be perfect one and yet want it to surprise us. We expect external factors to do it for us. We don’t realize the fact that external factors can actually make you happy but it would be an illusion of happiness. External factors make you happy but that too externally. You have to search for eternal power to make you forever happy.

    Being happy is a choice! You just have to take that eternal happiness out and have to spread it in the world. When you spread it, it comes back to you in whichever way possible. Take a step further and continue spreading smile, happiness and laughter. What you give is the reflection of what you are made up with!

    If you spread happiness, then you are full of happiness. If you spread bad words, you are full of negativity. Your actions speak enough for your personality. Be wise enough to reflect positivity through your personality and actions. Don’t feel that no one can understand what and how you are behaving. People are keen observers! Give them a chance to observe great things which lie within you.

   What you have to do to achieve this? You just have to bring the magic out and spread it around you. You would be the magnet which attracts people. There is a lot more to life instead of fame, money and wealth! Understand this, spread and explore the magic within you! Have a happy life! Have a purpose in life!

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Let your mind breathe!

We human beings are more creative, more imaginative and when it comes to mind we feel more privileged to have it. When a person is creative, he or she becomes more active in order to fulfill their huger of achieving something. He or she feels that they need to be on their toes when it comes to the fact of achieving the goals. Being creative takes a lot of guts! 

   Creativity is beyond any limit. It doesn’t understand day or night, it doesn’t understand whether you are alone or in public. It just knows it’s need of being expressed has to be fulfilled, and creative mind is the medium to do so.

   While living this kind of creative life, you actually push limits of your mind so much, that it drains it’s energy. Energy is something that works as fuel for the vehicle of creative mind. You not only use your physical energy but also you use power of your mind too, while creating something new. You should understand one thing that even though your mind is creative and you know it’s a tool to manage things but it too needs some space to breathe!

  Constant bombarding can be harmful to it. What can you do to achieve that space for your mind to breathe? Take some time out from your busy schedule and do nothing. Just relax. Feel free to sleep more and think less. Go on vacations and live free. This would be reinforcement for your mind. After this, your mind would definitely be refreshed and would be able to work with new spirit!