Refine Your Aptitude

There is always margin for more, say learn more, practice more, improve more, Be more optimistic etc. and this is important in process of refining the Aptitude. 

Out of 9 types of Aptitude, Intra-personal is the one to start with. Indian Philosophy quotes " pindi te Bramhandi" which explain " know your Self thoroughly and you can understand the Universe." 

In this journey of Self Analysis or Assessment, one has to be aware of one's 

1.Abilities, 

2.Emotions, 

3. Surrounding situational requirements 

4. Inherited qualities 

5.Acquired qualities. 

If jotting down above 5 points scale is bit difficult , then one should seek experts advise. Next step is , cultivate the practice of everyday planner which includes reading quality books, attending small group discussion based on line of planned profession, and very important is  the process of internship i.e. one must learn practically under supervision of experts in those respective fields. And then at the end of day, self analysis.

  

Lets elaborate more on the subject of internship, if someone is planning a carrier in administration field, then he must approach the same department, and work there just for understanding and experiential learning. In the process of medical field, internship is the vital period for practical knowledge. Even after planned internship, if one feels the need of more experience based learning for more refinement, then it's a valuable process and important decision for making one's Aptitude more strong, impressive and ultra refined.

Expression of Words Shows Your Emotional Intelligence

'Emotional Q' can be evaluated by tests. But our day to day conversation also helps in such evaluation. Everyone uses few special words most frequently, it may happen unknowingly, but these frequently used words are windows for emotional world within that person! 

How our brain process these words? From where they come? Mostly such words we percieve from listening to near and dear ones or reading. If one gets associated emotional experience linked with the word, then that particular word gets imprinted. Such imprinted words may have links of emotional bondings and/or strong acceptance in thoughts. 

Let's make it more pragmatic, if the college going lad is frequently nagged by parental suggestions, then his/her rebellion cum irritation can be seen in their frequently pronounced specific words as F*** off. Person with poetic mind, who is immersed in beauty of nature, also perceive beauty in world uses the word Beautiful.  

If we listen to Two successful and confident people conversation, they both use the special frequent words s " I think, I know." Person who is bit introvert can be heard saying "Hmmm" word frequently. Sophisticated and polite person's frequently used words are "May I" "please let me know",,"as per your convenience"etc.  Arrogance and over confidence usually can be heard with  abusive or hurting words for others. 

Now coming to crisp end of our subject, such frequently used special words surely shows EQ of a person but few may fake and pretend by using such words as covers, but experts can make out the truth behind pronounced words by judging the tone and vibrations of pronunciations.