Are you mentally ready for a child?

Every couple wants to start their family. Everyone wants to have someone who is their symbol of love. Child brings so much of optimism and happiness, one needs to be prepared for that. Financial stability is also important but, one needs to be mentally prepared for their child. It was considered that women are always mentally prepared to be a mom and men take things slowly when it comes to having own baby or planning for it. While keeping the present scenario of the society into consideration, one can have a clear idea about how women also struggle a lot, when they encounter with the fact that they need to think about extension of their family.

       In the world full of competition and expectations, women are also in the race of proving the self-worth. Career, family and additional responsibilities drain their energy and leave them unhappy and tired. If you are newly married these issues drain your energy a lot as your family members want you to be mom when you are more focused towards your career. Before taking any decision regarding child, please consider following things carefully! Ask yourself some questions before taking this important decision of your life:

• Am I ready to take this new responsibility?
•  Am I ready to keep my career aside for some time for the sake of my newborn?
•  Is there anyone, who will take care of my newborn if I get back to work after delivery?
•  What is my partner’s state of mind?
•  Would I be able to give my best to my child?
•   Is my family environment healthy at this point of time? To accept that newborn?
•  Do we have (you and your partner) enough finances to survive even if I take a maternity break?
•  What do my physical conditions say at this point?

Mind: The root cause of our feelings

Human mind is the world in itself. It is the world of thoughts. It is the world of feelings. It is the world of productivity. It is very thoughtful. Samartha Ramdas Swami also knew this fact and hence he asks mind that you are the root cause of whatever comes your way, may it be happiness or sadness. Life is like a roller coaster ride. There would be happy moments and definitely there would be sad moments. As the mind knows everything about us and our feelings, so Samartha Ramdas Swami asks mind in his 11^th Shloka that you search yourself who is the happiest and doesn’t have any sorrow in their life in this whole world? If you find one, then feel bad for having troubles and sorrow in life.  Samartha tries to make the mind understand this fact that you cannot hope for the happiness always.

        Further in the Shloka, Samartha asks mind that whatever you did in past is the source of whatever you are facing right now. Samartha tries to make the mind understand that you are the part of that Parmatma, you have an ability to pursue what you want. As we say in Marathi, “मन करा रे प्रसन्न, सर्व सिद्धीचे कारण!” When you have sound mind, you are the happiest person in the world. Because when you have sound mind, you become able to do whatever you want with creative thoughts and ideas. Your mind is the root cause of everything that you face in life.

         It is similar to whatever you sow, that will grow! So, through this Shloka, Samartha asks mind to keep its Karma pure and it’ll have sweet fruits in future. Samartha tries to tell mind that don’t just expect to have happiness in life, do some good deeds to claim that happiness. Whenever good things you do in life, you’d feel more happy and satisfied. That happiness doesn’t belong to the worldly desires and expectations; here he means by happiness is something which we gain after giving something back to the world around us. These sanskaras play very important role in nurturing our mind. When our mind gets nurtured, there is no force out there which can stop you from achieving the desired goal.

 

Overthinking can be harmful

Human mind is a tool that makes human ‘think’, ‘feel’ and ‘act’. We humans are blessed with various capabilities and those include the given above. We often don’t even realize what we have in our hands and that’s why we don’t value whatever we have. Since our childhood we have been listening that excess of anything is waste!

   This is not just a good thought to be written on blackboard in a classroom. It is applicable to everything in life. May it be love, care, worry or thoughts, when you do in excess amount, you automatically add an ‘over’ to it, which makes these beautiful feelings look ugly.  Today we would discuss about the habit of ‘overthinking’. Overthinking is always about anything that we could not control.

   Sensitive people are expert in this art. Why am I saying this? Because, they have a habit of taking everything right to the heart. Words that they hear, they hear them from heart! Their heart performs various functions. Sometimes it performs the function of hearing, sometimes it performs the function of caring and so on. This burdens their heart in many ways and they feel sad for the actions and words people use for them.

   Everyone in this world is unique and everyone doesn’t have same thought process. Over thinking, over caring and over loving can cause trouble to many people. Most importantly, it is troublesome for the person himself. Overthinking can never help you to solve the problem, it can only tire your mind. This way your mind cannot be able to think about new ideas, imaginations and anything that is new and happening. If you want to be a person with innovative ideas and imaginations, if you want to be happy then quit overthinking and start being positive!

Importance of having teacher in life

Life itself is a teacher which keeps teaching us about various things. Sometimes we pay attention and sometimes we forget to do so. But to make us aware about life’s uncertainty we need someone’s experiences to guide us. That work is done by the teacher. Teacher is someone who guides us in difficult situations and offers us strength to deal with the difficulties in life. Our continuous efforts cannot do anything if we don’t have any guiding force behind us.

     On the darker way of life, we need someone to bear torch for us to show us the right path. When we get confused, there is always someone who makes us think about finding the solution and that is our guru or teacher. When we fail even after his teachings, it’s he who tries to boost us for our future endeavors. And for this, it’s not necessary to have him around us physically. Teacher’s teachings play the role of his soul to guide us in difficult situations.

A mother, a friend, philosopher, guide and what not? Teachers play each and every role in our life and make our life heaven. Rather I would say that, everyone we meet in life has something to teach us. Knowledge is not just limited to academics, real life incidences teach us to be better person day by day. All those people play the role of teachers in our life.

     If we were a bird, knowledge plays the role of wings. Teacher offers us those wings to fly high. So, the importance of teacher in life cannot be compared at all. On this occasion of teacher’s day, we thank every teacher out there for their contribution of developing new generation and strong nation!

Make your child ready for the real world

Parenting is the greatest blessing in the whole world. As child enters our life, our perspective of seeing things changes and we become a better person. As a parent, everyone wants to be the perfect guardian of their child. They want to give each and everything which their child wants from them and why not, they want their child to be the happiest one in the whole world. But does it really work in the long run? No. There are parents who bring their children in the garden but they don’t let them play because, they don’t want them to be injured while playing. In this case, we could clearly see that they are being extremely over-protective. Any sensible mind could shatter while thinking about these children’s future.

You must be thinking that what’s wrong in protecting our child? There is nothing wrong if you are protecting them for the right reason. If you are protecting your child from the little things like injuries while playing, fights with friends then you are keeping them away from the real life experiences. No one is telling you to put them into troublesome situations to have experiences but at least let them decide what and how it feels when they fall, when they fail and when they succeed. It’s not always about their safety, sometimes it’s about their experiences, their views, their perspectives about things. These little things help to develop their personality.

There is this fact, which every parent should keep in mind that some or the other day, your child is going to be an independent individual and he or she has to face the real world. If you keep them away from these experiences, it will harm them in future. Just imagine, when they will face something in the future like failure or heartbreak, they wouldn’t be able to understand how to react or how to handle themselves, just because they would be totally dependent on you. Because you were the one in every situation who guided them and they didn’t have to do anything for that. So, please don’t make them face this in the future. Don’t be their weakness! Be their strength! Make them ready for the real world.

Change your perspectives and be you!

                                           

Our perspective matters a lot. You will feel that how much I try to see things perfectly, if things are not the same way, there can’t be any difference. Let me tell you a positive thing about life. Life is not at all easy; you need to convince your life that, “you are the way I see you.” What is so positive in it? Life will automatically show you some things negative but due to your positive perspective, you would find it easier and greater. Things around you don’t really change often but there is one thing that can be in your favor and that is your spirit, your perspective. How you see doesn’t change the way things work out around you. But it definitely changes the way things affect you.

    How can you achieve this stage in life? Is it possible? The answer is when you decide to be yourself at any given point of time, and in every situation, you can definitely do it. It has always been told that, “Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder”. When we decide to see the world through our own glasses, we find it so easy to deal with the uncertainties of life. When we see everything negative around, we should clean our glasses. Then we develop our own vision to see the world. We develop our own perspective to acknowledge things.

     No one’s life is perfect. Everyone has their own struggle. We need to understand our own way of doing things; we need to understand our own way of sorting things out. Everyone has their own style of reacting to the situations. Don’t copy anyone, accept yourself and apply your rules. You know your challenges well and you actually know how to solve them. Be calm and be you!

Feel happy to be happy

No matter how much we earn, no matter how much we achieve, we can never guarantee that happiness will arrive at our door. Without being happy, one cannot survive. Happiness is a feeling which fills our life with optimism. Happiness has a lot of strength which makes us feel confident. Everyone in this world does a lot of things to find happiness. Happiness is not about only things and people around us. It is an innate feeling, which keeps us going ahead in life.

     If everyone wants to be happy and does a lot of hard-work for that, then why don’t everyone be happy at the end? Many successful people also sometimes can’t find happiness, despite of having all the money, success and worldly things around them. Why does it happen? Because, they don’t feel that happiness within them. They can actually find it in the core of their soul. Being able to find self, is the way to find happiness in life.

   Happiness is a connection between you and your soul. When you find the core of your soul, you find happiness! There are a few ways to get connected with your soul, like meditation, self-talk, doing things to make others happy, spreading smile and doing things which are creative in nature. No one has ever achieved anything great by being sad, but the people who are happy, achieve self-satisfaction! Happiness is an option! Being happy is a choice and we know, you would make wiser choices in life!

Go slowly but surely

We have a special habit. Yes every one of us has the special habit of wanting our work to be done faster. We want to finish the work we have, and see the output very soon. Many of us consider it as a good habit. But do you know one thing or do you ever think about it that doing things faster can never be the aim. ‘Doing things properly should be the one.’

    Take an example of a child, who recently has learnt to walk. He tries to walk faster in an excitement to reach to the corner where his parents are standing. What makes him do so? His excitement of reaching the destination. So he walks faster and falls down. The same thing happens with us, when we try to reach the destination so eagerly, we fail in between the process itself.

What one should do to be sure about successful journey of achieving goal?

•         Trust your efforts
•          Manage things wisely
•          Be perfect
•          Improve yourself
•         Concentrate on efforts instead of speed
•          Be sure about your decision
•          Always remember that there is never turning back from the path of success
•         Your creativity is your weapon in this battle of achieving your goal
•          Be firm enough to accept things, may it be success or failure
•         Take responsibility of your actions
•         While going surely, make sure that it’s not getting too late
•       ‘This will definitely turn out to be the best’ should be your thought process
•          Prepare yourself for the journey because perfection needs patience

It’s always the matter of being free!

   Freedom is such aspect of life, which everyone wants to have. If freedom were related to not being in the prison, most of us were free. Freedom, its meaning varies from person to person. We need to understand one thing that, freedom is actually the state of mind. The late legendary freedom fighter, Lokmanya Bal Gangadhar Tilak had his thoughts clear about having freedom. For him, it was his birth right. Today, on the occasion of his 98^th death anniversary, let’s talk about freedom.

  William James was an American Philosopher and Psychologist, he used to think about freedom through spiritual spectrum. For him walking on the path of spirituality and behaving as per God’s will was the true freedom of mind. Today, even if we are physically free, we find our mind in the prison of insecurities, fears, ego, greed and negativity. 

 We find our mind surrounded by all the negative emotions which become the reason of having lack of creativity. How can we attain this freedom? How can we be free from this prison? The answer is so easy! We can do it by self analyzing things around us. It is all inside our mind.

          Self-control

           Self Observation

          Self Analysis                                                                                                                                        

       The above three factors can help us a lot in the journey of making our mind free from this prison. By implementing this, one can enjoy the true freedom in life. 

Discretion: A way to be closer to divinity

Literature of Samartha Ramdas Swami deals with the Philosophy through real life incidences. It is all about attaining spiritual goal by keeping balance between your life and your thoughts. Samartha Ramdas Swami backs the principle which tells about keeping balance between thoughts and actions. “बोले तैसा चाले, त्याची वंदावी पाऊले.” This is what we usually say in Marathi. In his 10^thshloka, Samartha guides mind to love Shree Ramachandra so much that it should become your habit. He asks mind to leave all the pleasures and desires of life behind and keep going ahead on the path of Shree Rama.

   Whatever sorrows we have in life, we shouldn’t feel bad for having them. These sorrows make us remind our God. So one should feel good for having problems in life, because when we have problems, those problems remind us of our aim. These problems encourage us to try more to achieve our goal. Our real life goal is that divine power. Whenever problems we have in the path of attaining our real life goal, just make our mind remind that whatever happening is for the betterment only. These problems work as a medium to continuously remind us of our aim. In the same way, problems in spiritual life are disturbance, lack of concentration, desires, selfishness and many more and these problems make us remind that we are being distracted and our real aim is Prabhu Shree Ramchandra, who is Aatma, Aatmaram, Parmatma and the divine power.

  When would our mind be able to attain this understanding? When would it be able to walk the path of divinity? It would behave the way we want when it would practice discretion that is “Vivek”. Discretion is the ability to behave in such a way, that no one would get offended. It is the ability to behave and talk in a polite manner. When we attain this ability, we would definitely be closer to the God. Because, here God or aim means what we want to achieve in life. When we have the quality of politeness, this quality would take us closer to the people around us and it would help us to achieve our aim. Samartha asks us to adopt that discretion and live life according to that. He asks us to keep in mind the importance of discretion and make it a part of our lifestyle. 

Recipe for successful relationship

If you ask any cook that what is the recipe of any particular dish, he or she would tell you the exact ingredients needed for that recipe. There are a few ingredients which make that recipe worth eating. Do you know that there are a few ingredients which should be added in relationship to make the recipe of relationship tasty? Which are those ingredients? Read on to know:

Trust: When you are in love with the person, over the years you realize that trust is very important in relationship. It is the glue which keeps you attached with the purpose of you being in a relationship.

Understanding: Love is not complete without understanding. Understanding is like salt in the recipe of relationship. When you have mutual understanding, you try and adjust with the odds of life without misunderstanding the person you love.

Commitment: Many people get confused when it comes to relation and commitment. You need to be committed with each other. When you are committed, you don’t need to be worried about what if the person cheats on you. Commitment brings a lot of responsibilities and it makes you a better person.

Growing together: Relationship is meant for the positivity, growth and love. If it doesn’t let you grow, it is not made for you. When your partner helps you grow in your field of work as well as in life, it is the best relationship for you.

Respect: One needs to have respect for each other. Giving respect to your partner makes them feel appreciated and noticed. Respecting your partner gives them sense of equality, which makes the relationship happier and easier!

Glorious History Of Ayurveda

 

India is a country where one will find many surprising yet very realistic traditional aspects of life. Sometimes we Indians fail to appreciate what we have as a traditional treasure. When we see what we have and appreciate its importance, we actually honor it. We have four Vedas. 1] Rugveda  2] Yajurveda  3] Samveda  4] Atharvaveda. Each of these Vedas has its own specialty. But do you know that there is one more Veda which is directly connected to our well-being? And that too, physical as well as mental? That Veda is Ayurveda.

      The fourth veda that is Atharvaveda is about Health. So, Ayurveda is hence considered as Upveda of Atharvaveda. In Atharvaveda, we find that it consists of various aspects of our body and mind. It is the first Health Science. It consists of bodily activities related to health like, blood circulation, digestion, respiration, reproduction etc. It is composed in a way that one can easily understand the fact that mind and body are interlinked.

      Ayurveda has a great history and it can be seen in the world’s greatest historical Indian epics like Ramayana and Mahabharata. In these Epics we find the names of jadibutis and a few trees which are used in Ayurveda for medicinal uses. We easily find names like ‘Sanjivani’, ‘Ashoka’. We find references of ‘Jvara’, ‘Tamasik’, ‘Rajasik’, ‘Satvik’ gunas of body in Mahabharata. We have many references of poisons and its remedies too in Mahabharata.

   Ashwini Kumar, was a Deva Vaidya (Physician of Gods) who was the master in Ayurveda. Ayurveda is a natural science. It has proven always that it treats human beings without any side effects. It is a good food for thought that one should make Ayurveda and its medicinal uses a way of life to live a healthy life. This earth is the mother of living beings. As long as we use her resources to heal ourselves, we would never face any difficulty in the journey of being healthy.

Be your own best friend

Friend is someone who always be with you no matter what life serves in your plate. He is the one who knows the inner self of you, which you hide from the world. We all need such friend who would be with us in every situation. We constantly search for such friend in our life. But when that friend hurts us, we feel more helpless and blame the friendship. But there are a few people who never complain and never demand. What makes them like this? They actually have understood the concept of loving their real self and accepting it. 

Let me tell you one thing that when you have an ability to accept your own fears and deficiencies, you won’t find it any difficult to be 'yourself' around anyone. What is the real concept of friendship? Friendship is about being able to stand by our friend’s side. It is what we expect from friendship. Do we really expect nothing in the friendship?? No, we expect because we have the sense of being surrounded by the people who love us for what we are. 

If we want to be accepted, why don’t we expect it from ourselves? Because we are not comfortable enough to be a friend of our own self. What could be done to achieve this friendship? We should share everything about our thoughts as well as about others to our inner self. We should spend some time with our real self in order to understand our mind. It is not that difficult and also not that easy! It is a bit complex process. Firstly, we should stop thinking that, “Spending time with self, will be boring because, I would be all alone.” We should think that it would be fun and my mind is with me. 

When your energetic mind is with you, how could you be alone? Give it a thought and make your life a beautiful journey of understanding your real self. It would definitely help you grow eternally as well as spiritually. Moreover it keeps you positive and keeps the anxiety, depression away from you. Because when you understand yourself better you become satisfied with the life you live. 

Give the perfect gift to your introvert child!

When you raise a child, it becomes difficult for parents to understand what he is feeling or the situation he is going through. He is the source of new ideas and ideologies. When you are raising him, you should keep this in mind. It’s your responsibility as a parent to raise him with a purpose of making him a responsible and emotionally healthy person. Now many of you would have a question that how should we make sure that he is being emotionally healthy as well as the responsible one? To understand this, we should gift him the ability to express. How should you do this? Read on to know.

As a parent, you know how your child exactly is? If your child is extrovert then you have no worries as he is already able to express himself easily. 

   But if your child is an introvert, then you should be more careful. Raising an introvert is very difficult as he has a lot of things going on in his mind but he doesn’t like to share those with anyone. This can cause him stress, so when you understand that your child is an introvert, gift him a diary and a pen! Let him write his own thoughts. Let him express himself through words. Let him understand the power of words. This would help him to be able to express as well as his privacy would not be disturbed.

   When he would start writing his heart out, he would be able to acquire the skill of writing. Believe me, being able to write is a blessing. You can play with the words, you can create magic by using your words. You have no limitation on thinking and imagining things. You have no restrictions while giving birth to your own new world. And already introverts are very much into writing and they are great thinkers. So, when you gift him a diary and a pen, be sure that you are gifting him a friend for his life. In this journey of writing, he could get an idea about his likes and dislikes. He could understand the purpose of his life. What else a parent would wish for his child? 

In search of the peace of mind

           

“When you are searching for the peace of mind, let me remind you one thing that, there are a few things which are within us. Those few things can be achieved by seeing what is going on in our mind.”

       Human beings are the special creatures. They are fond of everything which cannot be seen. Things which are beyond our limits, have always been attracting our attention. How can we control our mind? By paying attention to every minute detail and by keeping the peace of mind at its best!

        Now, many of you would think that how can we achieve that peace of mind? It is very easy. Keep yourself connected to your mind. When you do so, you’d realize that you were very unaware about the depth of your mind. Be aware! Your mind has a lot to tell you. It has very much within it, which needs to be brought out. Talk to your mind. Analyze your thoughts. Realize the needs of your mind. Understand the importance of treating its ideas well.

        When you want to create something new, you have to have the peace of mind, which allows you to be consistent with your creativity. Where does this peace of mind reside? It resides within the purest form of mind. Detox your mind regularly. Keep the negativity aside. Remove the creepy things and people from your life. And now see, what happens! You would feel free. You would feel good! And this feeling gives you realization of having peace of mind. All the best! Have a great life ahead!

Live your dreams

Life is a game of hide and seek between happy and sad moments. We have to play a role of witness in this game. Happiness is like a key and sadness is the lock to the door of mesmerizing world of our dreams! When we insert the key of happiness in the lock of sadness, we get to enter the world of our dreams.

     Many people complain about things, which they don’t get in life. What do they lack? They lack the key of happiness. They go to the door of dreams with the same lock of sadness. Does lock have an ability to unlock? No. This is the work of key! You need to have a key to unlock the lock!

     Many times in life, we see that when something bad happens, we feel sad. The incidence keeps filling our life with sadness, and we add on the sadness by keeping the smile away from our lips. We need to understand one fact that our life’s purpose is to live the dreams we have in our eyes. To do so, we need to keep the key of happiness near us.

     Living dreams is not everyone’s cup of tea. It takes a lot efforts but moreover it takes a lot of optimism too. It’s not easy to feel positive always. For this, you have to ignore many negative things in life and only have to focus on positive things. When you decide to be happy, you feel positive and once you feel positive, you take a step further in the journey of living your dreams. With a negative mind, you can never achieve happiness. Keep your mind positive and enjoy the happy moments of your life. To be able to dream is a blessing, we humans have got from life. Take a step further and gather all the courage you have to live your dreams. 
What you need to do?
Behave the way you want your life to be. Live the life as you'd live when your dreams would come true. Law of attraction does the wonders! Never dream about happy life! Live your dream daily! 

Avoid selfishness in life

Our mind is very speedy. It cannot be controlled easily. This fact was well known by Samartha Ramdas Swami. So, in his ninth Shloka, he tries to explain that we need to control that speedy mind and need to let it travel from being selfish to understanding the self. This journey is difficult because our mind easily gets attracted to the worldly desires which cause selfishness. When we get attracted to selfishness, we forget to value our “self”. 

    Self is Aatman! It is not about our body, it is our soul. Our soul is non-destroyable. It is continuous. But when would we understand this? We would understand this when we let go of our selfishness. Why would we do so? Because, selfishness causes damage to our “self”. When worldly desires try to equip our life, we run behind fulfilling them. When we couldn’t fulfill them, we feel bad and sorrow surrounds us from all the sides. 

    When we are in sorrow, we tend to take bad decisions. When we keep the worldly desires and selfishness aside, we get connected to the self and we find the real and pure happiness there. We get connected to Aatman that is the divinity. We understand that worldly desires give happiness for certain time but the path of divinity is the permanent happiness. Many a times people expect that they would get something from the property of their ancestors. But this kind of property and possession never lasts longer. 

    Samartha asks everyone to leave this expectation aside to stay away from sins.  When we keep desires and they don’t get fulfilled then there would be only one thing that is going to happen, you would be surrounded by sadness. To avoid this, Samartha is warning the mind to stay away from selfish desires.

Politeness: A key to achieve peace of mind

We live in the world where many people of different natures live. We often get confused between their true nature and the masks they wear. Today, we will talk about bringing change in our perspectives and not changing the whole world. I feel that is easier than changing the whole world. We often overthink about the behavior of the people and their views about us. We fail to recognize the fact that we cannot take care of their views and we need to do it about our own. Now you will say, if we are not getting how to react to the people we interact with then, what should we do? We cannot ignore their weird behavior as we have to deal with them daily. Then don’t worry, we have a solution for this too. Today, we are going to discuss about how to be polite not for the people around you, but for your peace of mind.

How can we achieve this?

We can achieve this by practicing this, it is as simple as that. Politeness is not an easy thing to follow. But if you don’t, you would have to face chaos and it could affect your peace of mind. When you behave in a polite way, you realize that you are not only being polite to the people around you but to your mind also. When you feed your mind with unnecessary things, you actually harm it. We can achieve politeness through polite words and actions. We can take some time, before reacting on anything in life. We can take time and then react so that we get to think about which is the best possible polite way to react.

Benefits of being polite

•          You get more loving people around you
•          You attract more love by being polite
•          Politeness is an asset of the popular personality
•          You minimize your problems, when you act politely
•          Polite people always win hearts!

It’s all about attitude

A person is made up not only of flesh, blood and bones. He is all about the personality which he carries. Personality of any person is made up of the attitude which he has for everything around him. You may feel that how has attitude been formed? There are a lot of things that contribute in the formation of attitude. But mainly there are three components and those are cognitive, effective and behavioral.

    These aspects contribute a lot in the development of our attitude. Our experiences and social factors are also important when we talk about attitude development. What we see around us has a lot of impact on our attitude. Because, what we see helps us forming an opinion about it. These opinions form the base of our attitude. There are two types of attitudes, one is implicit and other is explicit. Implicit is unconscious while explicit is the conscious one.

    Many a times we hear people saying that XYZ person has positive or negative attitude. What makes them thinks so? Every person has an aura and when people meet each other, they can easily identify the positive or negative factor of that aura. They also have some or the other experience of meeting people and hence they can easily figure out the attitude of people. While living in society, we form different opinions, which help to form our attitude. Despite of having bad surroundings, we need to develop positive attitude. It makes us grow as a person. It is the core of positive and happy life.

Age is just a number!

                     

I often wonder how we human beings think from the day we become capable of thinking? When we were children, we used to think that it would be so great if we grow up, we would get to live according to our wishes but when we actually grow up, we think about others. We think about what would people say if we follow our heart? We are so much into thoughts that we don' t get to do what we should or what we wish for. We think about our age a lot.
     We often have heard a lot about being politically correct by keeping our age in mind. When we cross our certain age, we become more concerned about what we've gained in life. Why do we think this much about our growing age? Because we're somehow habitual about thinking or measuring our success in accordance with our age. But is it really so? Not at all.
    Today we're going to talk about being acceptable about our growing age. We often hear that at this age, it's not possible now to work or it's not possible to start your own business. But this is the truth, when we accept the fact that we can't! And this is the biggest threat to our growth. Feeling young is the key to be forever young. But in fact accepting yourself at every stage of your life, is the key to be comfortable with yourself. There is nothing which can stop you and if it is so, then do you think that your age could be a barrier?? Have a successful and happy aging!