Be it a new job, a new relationship, or a change of city or country, a
new beginning always signifies a beautiful ending.
Instance, commitment into a new relationship would mean the end of your
days being single but, it would also confer your days filled with love and
affection. A change in job would feel like both daunting and exciting; a part
of you would miss the security of the old job but at the same time the other
part of you will always uphold powerful opportunities.
Sadness, regret or loss? Endings usher to an inevitable change; there
might be a feel of reluctant towards change and other times you might embrace
the new beginning.
How humans view #change depends on how well the element of control has
been established. If the control has been clutched away from you, then you are
bound to take the end as a loss. Migrating from one country to another; it is
an end to a new beginning but, at that point of time this fact doesn’t strike
too well with your emotions. Suggestion?
Change will take time; acceptance is the key! Try not to fight your
emotions during that phase. Give yourself time to grieve, rage and rant. Once
you have accepted that such emotions won’t be with you forever, embrace the
change and start fresh.
Anything is better than clinging onto the idea of the fear of what the
end might bring. Scenarios will play out in loops, you will be unsure about
what you feel. Far down even you know that the ending is what you need. #Fear
will always hold you back; making the wrong decision, the unknown, emotions
that may arise from the decision and leaping out of the comfort zone will build
anxiety all over your body.
“View the change as
the path that wasn’t for you.”
Humans are easily adapted to habits. A slight change can disrupt our
mood on the go. Starting a new routine can feel petrifying; the fact that
change makes us deal with overwhelming emotions is what we fear and avoid most.
Ending also means that we have to rethink our identity; while situations
end, the sense to explore oneself becomes higher. People take time to explore
this aspect, hence a feeling of ‘lost’ and cast drift is natural.
No matter how lost and wrecked you feel with your change, it all gets
better. No emotions are forever; both good and bad. Nothing is permanent, be it
the contended emotion that you are in now or even the one that you wish to
change. Haven’t you gone through a cargo full of changes throughout your life?
Didn’t you live to tell the tale? Some endings have been for the best, but think
about how much you have grown and learnt from these changes.
