Is Anger Contagious ?

Anger is taken casually so many times. If something goes wrong one gets angry, this situation is accepted as normal phenomenon. Sometimes anger is also termed as logical, and reasonable too. What exactly is this anger? Emotion? Expression? Reaction? Yes it is one and/or all but it is never reasonable or logical. If one person is in state of anger, then the other persons who are in empathetic or sympathetic state also feels this anger, and those who are prey/target  to this anger too react with anger. This triggering of chain reaction can only be stopped by  love and peace. Forgiving is also beneficial. 

Expression of anger is mostly contagious as seen in daily scenes, if in office boss yells at subordinate, then this angry subordinate, expresses his anger sooner or later. If anger is repressed then also aura of such angry person leads to triggering the anxiety in other person, who are in vicinity. Many a times it's seen that if mother is with repression of anger then her child is representing cranky nature or irritability. New born's, toddlers are frequently seen prone to anger crying if parents are angry and fighting. It seems that mirror neurons in our brain play this role. 

In a mob, this anger spreads like wild fire. For some negligible reason, mass anger hysteria has shown destructive and inhuman reactions. Anger is as volatile as fuel gas, it's contagious too. To be safe from these things, one has to become strong immunity wise. Peace and Love is the key to enhance this immunity. If I sense, anger is being invoked in me, then immediately I should balance myself and pacify my own mind. 

Yes, it can be practised. If I see someone angry then either I should stay away till the wave is over or I must have my own shield of self peacefulness. Indian Philosophy insists on one very important thing, anger must be controlled and then cease fire is must, since anger does  real harm to the person who is angry and less harm to whom anger is expressed. Hyper acidity, insomnia, high BP, migraine, ulcers, cancer are few known side effects of chronic anger syndrome. Many names are yet to be nominated. Be aware and take good care of yourself , Please!

Is Multiple Intelligence Hereditary?

Wisdom is the most precious heritage. Multiple Intelligence may lead to wisdom, but efforts  are must for  development of Wisdom. If we consider this as heredity and lineage, then there is quite high incidence of transmitting all or few factors of Multiple Intelligence through genes. 

Indian Philosophy, explains  in a great deal about this. It illustrates as Y chromosomes are responsible for  transmitting characters related to intelligence, while X chromosomes deal more with phenotype characters. Process of transmission happens via father with genes related to intelligence  is his chromosomes. And maternal factors of intelligence are transmitted, by her very existence. 

Intra uterine connectivity is considered the best period when mothers emotions and intelligence both are sensed and absorbed and gained by the foetus, through vibrations (Spandan). Mother being the very first teacher and Guru of the child, maternal intelligence is transmitted through her teachings, by various communication methods. Thus heredity must be defined as a theory of genes and energy vibrations, in regards with Multiple Intelligence. 

Yes, there are so many incidences where we see intelligent parents having child of quite low intelligence levels. Why is so? What went wrong? Pre conceptional state of would be mother and father plays a vital role in genetic expression. If negative factors like stress, bad habits as smoking, alcohol consumption , emotional imbalance , nutritional deficiency, chronic disease states, etc. are some factors which become hindrance in transmission of pure intellect. Also intra uterine accidents ,(traumas) physical as well as emotional may lead to subtle damages in transmission of intelligence factors. 

For enhancing these possibilities of transmission of intelligence, balanced diet, nutritional supplements, stress reliving therapies, Yog, meditation, indulgence in creative activities, no exertion, are the factors to accept and practice by both , in pre conception phase as well as during pregnancy.

Power Of Prayers

I was on a schedule in a intensive care unit with two new born babies on supportive ventilation. Inside this ICU, there is only One Religion. But outside the ICU the scene is different, one grandmother is reciting SreeRamRaksha and one is reciting healing Aayat from Quran. 

As soon as the I came out of ICU, the first grandmother says, " Doctor please take this Holy Ash of RamRaksha Abhimantrit  and put  it  on baby's  chest."

I could understand the feelings but the Doctor in me said, "Ma, I can't do this." 

Other grandmother asked me, "Can I see baby and blow blessings of Allah towards baby?" 

For this procedure I could see the same feelings as of the first grandmother but the doctor in me nodded in affirmation only to perform it while standing outside and looking at the baby from a glass door.

Suddenly the first grandmother remembered that this is also the way of passing the blessings of the prayers. And both did the same. 

If  substance is replaced by more subtle forms as air and Loving Glance, then Blessings and Prayers become more Powerful. There is this Oneness about Universal Love in prayers. No boundaries of religion are there in this territory of prayers. In all famous and big hospitals, in small hospitals, there are Idols of God. Doctors praying in OT, casualty etc. while treating some challenging case, is frequently seen. 

"We are doing our best, you too pray to the God" are the most frequently said lines by doctors. As a science, how these Prayers work? Vibrations of prayers are very subtle (Sukshm) and powerful. These acts, enhances confidence, boosts logical thinking, increases intra personal intelligence as well as inter personal intelligence. These are Multiple Intelligence factors. Such is the power of prayer.

Sunday, Quality Family Time

  Weekdays scheduled works , tight time line, and so many diversions . Your body and mind is so active that you may  have dreams  about your work and goals . Your BMR is also relatively at higher side. In such situation, Sunday is definitely an outlet . Being with Family, is emotional energy boost. Playing with children is more stress bursting. Cooking together, outdoor picnics are very relieving for tensed muscles. While in work, due to responsibility and anxiety, our shoulder joints, para-vertebral muscles, jaw muscles are tight and tense. It leads to accumulation of lactic acid in respective muscles. This triggers pain and fatigue. Such repeated tensions may lead to frequent aches and pains with Muscular Fatigue Syndrome. This is seen commonly in cream society. To prevent this, playing, light exercise, massage and sun bath, happy time with family helps  excretion of this fatigue chemicals. So Sunday is the Day of Rejuvenation. For long term fitness and being well, Rest is must. Sound Sleep is an integral factor, and well planned  relaxing phase is the other very important factor. Let's respect our body and mind , be with family, enjoy healthy food and Happy Time,Together.

Festival Celebration, Basic Concepts for Children

When Festival Season is coming, child simply perceives , now this is my demand time. New clothes, toys, new mobile, video games and the list is always ready. Old Time sweets and meets are now optional. While travelling is the new trend during Festival Holidays. And to keep update such trends, even parents accept so. May be grandparents are there to put their suggestions to follow the traditions but sometimes they are too updated. Here I sincerely request parents to balance between traditional Festival Celebration and then planning for new concepts of celebration. Let the child know about history , total information regarding particular Festival, then child must watch and participate in traditional ways of rituals too. Festivals represent the Roots of Sanskriti and this understanding is one of the essential learning to build the personality of child. We have to take a good care to present a picture of the total Reason of Festival Celebration and not mere celebration which may be perceived without any logical base. Child with strong understanding of his/her sanskriti shows quite a strong Aptitude in life time. Let's celebrate our Festivals with understanding the science and Sanskar and make sure strong Aptitude of our next generation.

Acceptance Vs Tolerance

When a loving and caring heart pumps, it gives acceptance phase but when love is deficient then one has to tolerate. May I give few  vivid examples to visualise? Just imagine, if you are accidentally using toothbrush of other person... Agh! It's intolerable. But while kissing the loved one, then this act is simply accepted because brain and heart both are immersed in Love Chemistry! Second common, day to day example,  is stench of ammonia is totally intolerable but mother simply accept her kids wet pants, there is no phenomenon of tolerance. When someone is tolerating somebody, or some situation then there is deficiency of love, and efforts has to put in to get adjusted to it. These efforts may be mere or severe too. Thus , in the act of Tolerance, there are efforts and quite a lot energy is consumed. while in act of Acceptance , it is At Ease, and energy consumed is very less, in the contrary energy is Restored in the form of Increased Emotional Stamina. If somebody is frequently prone to situation of tolerance then his/her emotional stamina decreases rapidly and then there is intolerance expression at physical level in the form of Allergy. Yes! This is most important psychosomatic aetiology of many  Allergic disorders. So many allergic bronchitis cases in Pediatrics are now on  steroid free medications after removing the emotional root cause, leading to intolerance. Negative emotions were replaced by Acceptance with help of EFT and NLP. Thus not only anti allergic and symptomatic treatment but actual Psychological positive enforcement helps efficiently for long term benefits. Parental training and play-way methods are highly effective  to covert tolerance to Acceptance.

You Can Give, What You Have Within You

When you see statue of Laughing Buddha, naturally you smile. Big and broad smile on the face, always triggers at least a flicker of another smile. If we want to make someone happy, then it's must that I should feel happiness  within. If I want to encourage my loved ones, then I must be strong and confident first, I must sense my own confidence. Every state has it's own Energy and the same form of energy is emitted on it's own. When I am not in the complete state of peace, then I have to  take efforts to make the other person peaceful.  When we are in company of a enthusiastic and hard working person, we simply do our jobs better. Successful Leadership always demands Best Qualities in the Leader. Take  consideration of  small incidents in daily life, if parents are regular readers of good literature then their kids are natural readers. In IT industry, now a days Aptitude test is very important for team leaders placement. Leader's aptitude can lead the growth of company is the Sure and Simple Fact, behind this motto. Visionary Entrepreneur , who has full faith in self and own Visions always becomes Successful. His Aura emits such strong vibrations that like minded people come in contact and form the Ideal Team. So Mantra of Success is firstly inculcate good qualities in self, be humble and have firm Faith in the God, be reasonable and wise, then surely we can change other minds and channelize their energy towards Light and Successful, Satisfied Life.

EQ is Proportional To Aura Strength

Even though we know so much about EQ , we must know about it's Origin which is explained in Indian Philosophy, Ved , Upanishad, and Gita. Yog Shastr is part of it. Aura of a person consists of, AnnMay Kosh, PranMay Kosh, ManoMay Kosh, VidnyanMay Kosh, Aanand or Dnyan May Kosh. EQ is related mostly to ManoMay Kosh but Ofcourse it's interlinked with all Koshas. Since AanandMay kosh is related to AatmDnyan as GuruKrupa, it's understanding is purely experience based and can't be explained in words. But this Ultimate Kosh eminates AatmBal rays which strengthens other Koshas. Koshas are expression of Energy Vibrations.After knowing these Basic Facts,Let's focus on ManoMay Kosh. To energies this part, we have to express ourselves in very well mannered. There must not be supression or repression of emotions. Emotional Freedom Technique( EFT)and Neuro Linguistic Programme (NLP) are best for abovementioned purpose. Meditation actually helps as Root and Base of Energy Supply for ManoMay Kosh. EQ enhancement is achieved with regular practice of NLP and Dhyan(Meditation). Here I humbly suggest to take assistance by Experienced person to understand and learn, these methods. Only understanding is not sufficient but regular practice under supervision of Guide is necessary. As EQ defines your one of the most important Personality Aspects, one must achieve it's Peak.

Good BreakFast helps for multitasking

The person who is multitasking, needs stability and boost of energy as a start of the day! Even though it may appear monotonous but nutrition must be standardised. Fruit juice or milk, simple carbohydrates as puffs of cereals, sprouts, boiled egg, etc. are opinions. No fried food as it increases blood circulation to digestive tract and you may feel bit sleepy. Multitasking needs alert and refresh mind set, sugar in fruits is most beneficial for this purpose. Hydrochloric acid secreted by night can make the nervous system prone to irritations but puffs actually neutralize excess of Hydrochloric and assists in mind stability. Proteins and micro nutrients in sprouts improve our stamina. Wholesome, balanced diet as colorfully arranged, served with aroma hints and last but most importantly with loving smile is best to break the fast, and fast start of joyous multitasking day.

Along with breakfast recitation on Omkara is the ultimate nutrition for brain for multitasking.

Butter can make bitter things better

When situation is bitter then only good friends company act as butter to make things better. Yes! Its very important fact that one must be very careful about choosing good company. Mirror neurons in our brain always crave for mirroring , greater and good acts but beware of it's naughtiness as these neurons may indulge in bad things too. So one must either be in self control or choose good company wisely. 

Next important thing about good friends is you can always do loud thinking in front of them and it releases bitterness stagnated within. So understand Neuro-physique of self and company and take benefit of it to make yourself Really Successful at emotional state. Yes emotions play very important role in Successful life since stable and peaceful mind is the secret key of true success.

Myths And Phobias About Food

The very first wrong myth I heard during my childhood was, "now a days food doesn't have Satv (nutritive value to it's fullest) because farmers are using too much fertilizers, urea has it's side effects and even mineral content of soil (called locally as kas ) is poor." This elderly learned fellow was sure to state that forthcoming generation will be weak. 

Ours is next generation, and still we are strong and healthy!! And such are these dangerous notions related about food, which are discussed very seriously, under the banner of Care. The next popular phobia about food is, vegetables and fruits are processed using chemicals. My aunty informed me,"now a days they give injections to vegetables and fruits" as a doctor I literally saw pumpkin being injected with 2 cc syringe. And this recent episode of Aadesh bhauji (a Marathi TV actor) had blood in vomiting (Hematemesis)!?! had given more popularity to same phobia. 

Oh God! Please help me and guide me, which food is Safe ? Of course I am not denying, there is truth in all above news but... then what is the safe option? Let me share some interesting scientific facts here. Have we noticed that within some time period, mosquitoes  and cockroaches become resistant to repellents. Now may I dare to ask one thing, if insects and birds can mutate and evolve themselves, get adapted to changing surroundings then why  not  same Thumb Rule of Nature is applicable for us? Since intelligent human  beings do have intelligent cells to get adopted to surrounding and surely evolve, then why is not this Fact also popular along with myths and phobias related to food? In our tradition , before eating our meals we say prayers and regard food as Ann PurnBrahm,. Such is the power of faith and gratitude that food acts as Power Source and medicine.. in it's true sense. In the books of Psychology, it is stated that if person believes he is bitten by non poisonous snake, then chances of his survival increases by many folds. Here I would like to encourage all of you that please focus on positive thinking while taking meals, please don't entertain suspicion while eating. Yes it's obvious that I do recommend safe and nutritive food. But even I request to think in positive manner. 

Dar dar ke khane se kya fayada? Pyar aur vishwas se khana khayiye!

Invest your Energy wisely

Energy must be respected and wisely invested everyday. Thinking in creative phase is primary and essential investment. Creativity boosts our energy stores. This fact must be experienced, rather than just known. Our daily routine sometime becomes monotonous and this phase may stagnate energy. Have you observed yourself when you are bored for more than a week, then you are highly prone for burst of negative emotions. Cultivating a good hobby is a one way, playing is also one of the very good creative doing, visit to Nature specially with kids, and listening kids imaginations actually brings out our own creativity. Eating simple carbohydrates, salads, sprouts is also very good investment of energy. Eating fast food is not wise, since such food stuffs require more energy for their digestion and excretion than they provide the energy in caloric value and nutritive value.  Now lets come to emotions. Energy expenditure for crying is more than for smiling. Thus by smiling we are saving energy along with increase in value of presentation.. So my dear learned friends, invest your energy in prosperity of complete health which is ultimate and known as Wisdom(Dnyan).

Relief comes Naturally

Each cell possesses vital force which is responsible for healing. Whether injury is at physical level (somatic) or at emotional level (psychotic) body always try to restore homeostasis (normality and vitality process). Take an example of emotional injury: when you are angry there is increased acid and bile secretion, blood vessels are dilated, increase in heart rate and respiratory rate. See so many changes !!! And these are proportionate to intensity of your emotion. To restore these changes there starts Cooling system in mind and body which is Healing in itself. But repeated such injuries lead to some damage like gastric ulcer. Beware of these facts and try to protect yourself from emotional injuries. Awareness is the first step towards complete health. Awareness helps to control negative emotions and triggers cellular intelligence for natural healing. Now lets understand physical injury, viral attack leading to common cold, defence mechanism of body comes into action, sneezing to throw away foreign material, increased mucous secretion in response to inflation, and white blood cells actually kills virus by Neuro-chemical weapons or eat them literally. See so many procedures for self defense. For support now body needs good rest, good food, and good company for good mood. Whenever there is injury (any type) don't eat junk food since to digest this body gets overboard work and so recovery process gets delayed or even disturbed. Vitality is the best Healer and being peaceful , contented maintains Vitality. Remember this health mantra always.

Get distracted from sufferings

Whatever may be your age, along with happiness there are sufferings. They are physical and emotional. When there is ache or pain, immediately the person gets attracted towards it. Vice a versa when person needs attention he/she feels pain. Thus pain is always interlinked between body and mind. It's really difficult to focus on other things, when pain is there. But one must try to focus on pleasant memories or beautiful scenery or towards the person we love,like and this really help to decrease intensity of pain. Perception of pain is very personal. Medical aids, medicines can help surely but along with these therapeutics, root cause of pain must be diagnosed and treated well. Loving and caring words, touch therapy secrets Oxytocin and Endorphins and increases tolerance. Mother's soothing touch actually calms down irritated nerves and removes pain. Acupressure points also are beneficial. Kind visitors and fresh flowers, fresh fruits help a lot when given with true heart and prayer's. 

Parental Habits are reflected in child

What you say may or may not be seen in behavior of your child but what you do is surely followed. So if you want to inculcate good habits in your child then make sure, you are the first one to have it. Anyways, the golden rule is, the one whose deeds speak of positivity is authority to suggest it to others. Early retire to bed by 9.30 to 10 pm and so early wake up time by 6am is health mantra for home!! This must be practiced by all family members . Eating seasonal fruits every day is 2nd healthy habit. Prayers in the form of sanskrit or mother tongue, as a daily spiritual ritual is equally essential for total health . Child may pick some bad habits from peers , playmates and surroundings, in this situation please have patience. Firstly counsel your child. If necessary then only be firm and punish but be aware while punishing you as a parent must not lose control of your own consciousness. Family visits in Nature and family play time are very important habits to evolve  EQ of child and parents as well. Let's enjoy Good Habits!!!!

Happiness can be practised

Are you aware of your chemical factory in your body? Endorphines, and cholinergic,  are related to  happiness , oxytocin is known as love n care hormone. While anti cholinergic can be said to be pain n misery mediators. Heart it self has it's own hormone ! Understanding this and then accepting this Fact is important for Logical Thinking! Logical thinking can control impulsive behavior which may be emotionally driven.  Emotions like happiness, misery, anger should be understood so one can control them, and even such states can be changed. If you are feeling lonely or melancholic , bit anxious or so then simply take deep breath and try smiling! Yes !! Mere effort of smiling action releases Endorphines so  you can actually come out of chemical state related with tears. If you practice this exercise then within 3mths you become expertise in controlling negative emotions and leading your self into happy state of mind! Please do remember one thing blindly joining laughter club is a temporary solution .But Logical Thinking , understanding chemistry and then practicing it for consecutive 3mths is sure shot success towards happiness which is Relevant and more towards Relief and complete Health!! So lets smile logically and practice Happiness and Spread Happiness!!!

Happy New Year Friends

Here comes New Year 2016 with it's Light and Bliss!! Let's harvest the seed of friendship in the soil of faith! And enjoy all the seasons of sentiments!!  There is shower of blessings of the God !! Pink n cool colorof love and bright sun warmth of care!! Surity of ripening of relationship!! With smile on face and love in heart let's begin this New Year!!

Depression Must Be Diagnosed

If you feel depressed for more than 2 weeks then be cautious. Please pay attention to your spouse and  pupil too , and rule out early signs of depression. Subtle signs may be presented as not feeling fresh after awakening, early insomnia, not interested in daily routine, not feeling satiety after meals, unable to enjoy social gathering etc. These signs can  be seen amongst adults, teens and even kids. At home front check out signs of indigestion as it provokes lethargy and dullness leading to depression. So cut down fried food,fast food and start fresh fruit juices as orange, pomegranate which cures gastro intestinal inner lining and also provides micro nutrients which help in detoxification as well as rejunuvation . Carrot juice provides pectin which actually heals GIT. When we say....'it's my gut feeling' it actually states the old fact that feelings are related to gut . Satiety centre in brain gets triggered after good food and also get disturbed with bad food. Vice a versa stress and indigestion can lead to bulaemia or anorexia. Thus vicious cycle may set in. To prevent this in adult or child one must treat at both levels....emotional support and nutritional support.  Please don't get embarrassed if there is depressed state ,please don't hide or neglect but help the one to come out of that state ASAP.

If your child is angry

Dear caring parent it's so important to communicate with love and peace especially when dear one is angry!!! Anger actually triggers BMR also there's now presence of some body chemicals which affects not only body as increased heart rate and so....but it also blurrs proper  thinking process.  In this state of anger child is actually vulnerable and needs peaceful and understanding parents hugs and calming words. Usually any intense emotion stays within for just 20 sec!! See how short is this time period to stay cool to help angry one !! So dear understand this physique and chemistry to simply Stay Chill for angry kiddo

Parents and positive path

AUM! Whenever there is emotional chaotic situation between parent and pupil that Time is very very crucial to Stay Calm. Pupil's emotions are  flaring and sensitive ; not yet stabilised by experiential learning . So parent is the one who should stay calm quite and observant. Never to panic in front of pupil because mirror neurons of pupil are very much in harmony with parents body mind and aura. One must take benefit of this Fact. Stable parents aura helps to minimize anxiety and instability of pupil thus helping him to become calmer and more conscious towards positive behavior.